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Universities resist relationship bans as new rules come in

Institutions including Liverpool and Southampton to continue to ‘discourage’, rather than prohibit, staff-student relationships despite new regulations, as others opt for partial bans

八月 1, 2025
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Several English universities have introduced partial bans on staff-student relationships ahead of new regulations coming into force, but critics say institutions have “missed an opportunity” to take more decisive action on sexual misconduct.

From 1 August, universities will, for the first time, be subject to a new condition of registration introduced by the Office for Students (OfS) that aims to protect students from unwanted sexual behaviour after a fifth told the regulator they had experienced this.

It mandates that universities must outline what they are doing to prevent harassment and sexual misconduct and that students must?receive compulsory?training on issues such as consent?and?what to do if they witness misconduct.

Despite the new rules being due for a year, many institutions appeared somewhat unprepared, with several changing policies at the last minute and others failing to make their positions clear.

Institutions are being strongly encouraged by the OfS to ban staff-student relationships as part of the new rules?because of the risk of “abuse of power”, but implementation of this ranged widely among Russell Group institutions polled by 51吃瓜.

The University of Liverpool has confirmed it will introduce no such ban and that its policy will instead “continue to strongly discourage…any member of staff from having or pursuing a personal or intimate relationship with a student”.

A spokesperson said staff will be required to report the relationships so “measures can be put in place to seek to protect the student from any abuse of power”.

“It is our view that a ban is both unlikely to stop all such relationships from forming and likely to deter their reporting, thereby impeding our ability to protect the student concerned,” they added.

The University of Southampton also confirmed that it will be maintaining its current policy, which “strongly discourages” intimate relationships between staff and students, and states staff must declare this relationship to the university. This was despite the University and College Union branch??last year that pushed for a ban.

King’s College London appeared to be taking a similar stance, with a policy “discouraging” relationships still active on its website - it did not respond to repeated requests for comment asking?whether it will be changed.

Anna Bull, co-founder of The 1752 Group, which campaigns to end sexual misconduct at universities in UK, said that “clear” policies condemning relationships were important in supporting affected students.

“When, or if, the relationship goes wrong or becomes abusive or harmful to the student, such policies ensure that there’s a route for the student to raise concerns and that the student knows that they are in the right to be concerned,” she said.

“In my research, students have told me that they look through university policies when they feel uncomfortable about staff behaviour to find out whether they are justified in their concerns.” Not banning relationships “will send the message that blurred boundaries are acceptable, and will deter students from raising concerns,” she said.

The universities of Birmingham, Bristol, Oxford,?Manchester and Sheffield,?as well as , the London School of Economics?and Imperial College London, have all banned staff-student relationships where the staff member has a “relevant” or “direct responsibility” for the student, but have stopped short of introducing a blanket ban.

Bull said that “the ‘direct’ relationship definition is too narrow” and should instead encompass staff where “there is a current or potential learning, pastoral or assessment responsibility”.

The University of Exeter has one of the strongest policies among the Russell Group, stating staff “must not pursue or enter into an intimate personal relationship with a student or purchase transactional sex from any student”. The University of York, where Bull is a lecturer in the School of Education, has updated its policy to ban relationships where a staff member “has, or is likely to have, direct academic responsibilities” for students.?

UCL confirmed it had looked to “go further than the requirements” by prohibiting technicians, heads of department, deans, pastoral support staff and security staff from entering relationships with students, on top of bans on relationships between students and staff who have a “direct responsibility” for them.

Some policies still appeared ambiguous. For example, Birmingham, which previously discouraged relationships, now says they are “prohibited” but “if” a staff member enters into a relationship with a student, then this must be declared.

Graham Towl, professor of forensic psychology at Durham University and former pro vice-chancellor, said issuing partial bans on staff-student relationships was “a step in the right direction”, but said he was “disappointed” that universities have not introduced blanket bans. “It would be the most straightforward thing to do,” he said.

“In schools, if a teacher was having a sexual relationship with an 18-year-old in a sixth form, they couldn’t simply say, ‘I teach chemistry, she was doing English’. They’d just get thrown out.”

The OfS requirements stipulate that universities must provide readily available information on their sexual harassment policies, which must be “easily accessible by students and those considering applying”.

The universities of Durham, Cambridge, Nottingham and Warwick all had pre-existing partial bans on relationships but did not respond to requests for comment on whether they would be updating their policies in light of the changes.?The University of Leeds did not appear to have a copy of its policy available to the public.

Bull said: “We’ve had enough notice of this shift that it shouldn’t be a scramble to get policies over the line and be published at the last minute.”

Towl added: “Why wouldn’t universities be open and transparent about something so important?”

juliette.rowsell@timeshighereducation.com

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Reader's comments (19)

It should be made clear that staff/student relationships are not appropriate full stop. It should be made clear when colleagues accept a post and sign a contract and if they are unhappy with this then they should go into another profession.
I agree, Exeter seems to have got it right. Why can't all universities adopt this sensible and transparent policy? Well done Exeter!!
No relationships, no problem!! Keep your hands off the students and do the job you're are paid to do which is to educate. I really can not see why this is so difficult tbh.
As an academic staff member, I feel sick every time I read a headline like this. Who are the people who are against the bans? It is not ok to prey on students, and you are embarrassing the whole sector. Enough.
I think the problem is that our highly paid senior management and administrators are rather frightened of actually implementing such a policy, so they prefer ambiguous phrasings. But yes, I don't see anyone actually publicly arguing against this, or making a case against it so why not just go with the clear, straightforward and unambiguous ban?
Well yes the counter argument is pragmatic, they fear to open a can of worms which I think is foolish. In my experience these relationships, however egregious, are actually rare, so why attempt to protect the few who are so reckless and stupid that they are prepared to risk their careers and livelihoods?
I think there are nuances. Taking the school example above, schools are generally much smaller than HEIs, so the Chemistry teacher may well know, at least by sight, the English students. In a large HEI, with several faculties, staff often don't even know who other staff are, never mind who the students are. It's entirely realistic for a (younger) staff member to meet a (mature) student, outside work, and a relationship to develop without knowing the staff/student status (esp. if the student is doing a part time professional qualification. So, the "not directly involved academically" makes sense. Obviously other things need to be in place as well, (e.g. those with access to learning & assessment systems should declare it, once they know). But I'd agree that a blanket ban is impractical in a large institution, and things could end up being hidden, with the potential poor consequences (as York mentioned above). The transactional sex, mentioned by Exeter, is another interesting one. If they're referring to sex workers, while having never been in that scenario myself, I can't imagine too many discuss their day jobs. So, I can see why the blanket bans actually lead to issues.
"It's entirely realistic for a (younger) staff member to meet a (mature) student, outside work, and a relationship to develop without knowing the staff/student status (esp. if the student is doing a part time professional qualification". I think this is just possible but extremely far-fetched tbh. In my experience when you meet someone, one of the first questions you ask is "what do you do?" I find it very hard to believe that the status of the younger member of staff, in this fanciful scenario would not be almost immediately made known. As they say, the maxim is that "hard cases make bad law".
What about the possibilities here for entrapment of naive members of staff who would then be open to blackmail under this system?
I know that relationships between doctors and their patients and solicitors and their clients etc are strictly prohibited and quite rightly so, but Universities are often very large. Several Universities have in excess of 40,000 students and thousands of staff (the size of small town!). It is of course accepted that many young people often engage in frequent sexual encounters at this time in their lives and good luck to them, I say. So I think it is highly unrealistic to say that no such encounters between staff (especially younger) and students will or should occur (we also have very many categories of staff, such as pg tutors, and of students (full, pastime, seconded etc) to complicate matters). If we want to put this down entirely we must as Vincentio puts it "geld and splay all the youth of the city". I think the notion of "direct involvement" makes sense but it does water down the principle and then you have a legal quibble about what does :"direct involvement" actually mean. There are so very many possibilities here in terms of age, status, sexual orientation, etc etc.
And they are all on those dating apps I hear, staff and students!
Well yes, and in some cases the ages of the student and the staff member maybe very close. Both maybe single adults who have no direct contact whatsoever with each other in their University or any impact on either of their work. I can't see why consenting adults can not have a relationship where there is absolutely no conflict of interest whatsoever and it is no concern of anyone else. These are not the kinds of relationships that are problematic in any way.
"The transactional sex, mentioned by Exeter, is another interesting one. If they're referring to sex workers, while having never been in that scenario myself, I can't imagine too many discuss their day jobs." I think that in the case of anything transactional, the parties discuss the nature of the transaction or there is no transaction. These cases do occur but where the "abuse of power" resides is a more difficult question to determine I would imagine? I am aware of one case of this kind.
"No you can't do a MBA in our business school because your wife is a senior lecturer in Maths" "Sorry we can't hire you into a PostDoc position you are the best candidate for because your partner, who you met when you were both students, hasn't finished their PhD yet"
I think in both cases the pre-existing relationship would trump, as it were, the current relationship. If people have been in long-standing relationships prior to their academic connection then obviously there would be absolutely no case to answer. No I think the concern here is rightly the case of younger students (characteristically female) and older more powerful academic staff (characteristically male). The desire is to protect the younger student from abuse of power. The problem here is that there are many other kinds of relationship possible between adults connected with the University where there would be no abuse of power, relationships between adults of similar age who have no direct connection for example among a population of tens of thousands. I personally am happy with a blanket ban but I can see that there are real problems here.
All the attention is, quite reasonably, on protecting students. But some kind of regulation regarding intimate relationships between staff and students protect the staff too. All academic in my case, I am happily married with no desire to stray...
I was watching that rather fine Josef von Sternberg movie, De Blaue Engel (1930), with Marlene Dietrich and Emil Jannings the other day.
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